Stop trying to hook me up!
April 19, 2008 by Seasons
You ,my friends, am making me feel inept and deficient! There is no void in my life as it is by choice, that I am alone.
The dating scene is not as rosy as it promises to be. After this and now this…. I aught to know better.
The B-train is quite an attractive option and will help to get away from all the drama. Some of the moves to hook me up are quite hilarious I must say and I will post some here soon.
My relationship -guru- pal is at it again and insists that he now knows the perfect one for me…. it is really amusing how much effort he goes out to hook me up( more later)
Am on the road again and it is helps that I will not have to meet those desperate mamas you are trying to hook me up with… I will hook up when the time is right and at my terms thank you very much!
You must be considered to be a man of quite some substance for people to be just throwing women at you now.
I dont think thats it..it more of my friends wanting to live vicariously through me ha ha..seriously though..it just simple meddling
Wacha I go read I come and comment vizuri.
After reading, I have to agree with Mwangi. Now I can’t wait to meet you I see if I too can hook you up with some SINGLE HOT HONIES……lol!!!
Dont you dare! I am coming to the UK for R&R
Hakuna mambo of your own time. Saa zingine watu hushuka hiyo B-train. Uliza the usual suspects hapa…..wanjijua.
Toboa!
Ebu I unpitch my tent…..have a timam weekend.
At times its best to be alone. Don’t force yourself to date if really you want to be alone.
I don’t like the way people (not all) in relationships try to make it look like a sin to be single aarrgg!
Am in control this time round
How you be and where are you this time?
Am great..in Kampala
I think that being ‘comfortably’ alone for a while is good. You get a chance to sweat off the mental baggage and to get a clear vision on what really matters to you. While at it, I you will definitely meet someone special. I think. Don’t yield to people’s pressure, it is your life. (…only because I have no one to recommend! :))
Great advice as usual Mwari…. glad the last line is in jest. You have settled in? I will pop over to your spot and write in german
Welcome to the B T, it certainly gives one time to reflect & put things into perspective. And you can always jump off temporarily…when the need arises. But the best thing about it is that it’s drama free!
Ahsante! Oh..are you saying you are still in BT with all those college chiles oggling you?
Perhaps they need to throw them hookups this side
In embu?..Kirima,maybe we should come visit with my boys and send the pressure your way
I agree with you. You will find the right one when the time is right. All the best in the unaided search.
Thanks dude! I hope the appraisal goes well on monday
first I have a swali. what is the B-train?
Bila train..meaning ‘without sex’
Interesting post. Pole sana for being handwad. Still, it must be a good feeling being chased, no?
Must admit… its better than being ignored
Anyway, you say “I will hook up when the time is right and at my terms” and I can’t help but wonder what those terms are
perhaps yet another post….
Yap..another post coming up
Don’t kick a gift horse in the mouth! be happy someone thinks you are a worthy catch
he he..Dating takes energy…whilst I appreciate the effort..it is irritating to be hooked up when you don’t feel the need to date
hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe and here I am really LOL , infact LOOOOOOOL.Write a book already, forget the posts. Write a book.
…Aaaanndddddd who will buy the book?
me i wont try to hook u up ,instead al ask u to hook up with me. ha ha
Really? Are you as desperate as those mamas? I mean who ever needed hooking up these days?
stop trying to hook him up!
Wewe..wacha utani!
BT is the solution. Relationships, well, some suck.
Lool pole. Your time will come.
See… there was no need for me to toboa….wamejileta tuu wenyewe (Archer)…..LMAO!!!
I feel you about being single and in control when it comes to dating and being hooked up. I was there too and I enjoyed being single. It was the best time…..lakini, I was getting ‘lonely’. Wacha now I enjoy the ball and chain situation and see how it pans out.
Can’t wait for the next entry!!! Tent imekataa kutoka!
Misery loves company?
Funny Rista..very Funny
we! just kidding.am also for the BT option na nataka kuona ka naeza toboa this year. so far so good and am loving it
It has its values..I lasted more than a year last time round before I got involved in this dating drama
I hear you! A guy, if you are not looking people introduce you left right, A chile, depends on how long you have been single, then people judge which they should ‘risk’ introducing a longtime single gal to. Then again thats a statistic…47% of all stats are made up on the spot…
@Mocha: I’m not a usual suspect! I’ve only been on the BT for *counting fingers* 1, 2, 3…. wah! Come to think of it, it’s been a while! But I’m not complaining. I’ve done 10 months before (but not that I want to pull that off again!)
@Seasons: well, I’ve received a fair share of offers/advances, unfortunately most come with strings attached and I don’t need that. Alternatively, when shag offers come up too easily, one had better think thrice… before turning them down.
Welcome to the train.
always pathetic when guys think they know the perfect one for you…point is they are usually clueless on who you want and when…BT is cozy….
Noticed that all the jama’s here a claiming to be on the B-Train………UWONGO
Mso, I agree! Although am on the BT
Kumbe that’s what BT means!
Yes..where do I send the invoice?
Appraisal was jana, boss upgraded my scores, imagine!
Good on you dude!
Since everyone seems to be on the BT train, si mjuane. But I think most people lie about that OR this train makes lots of stops.
What? Now people do not believe am on the BT? Do you know hard it is to be especially in Kampala? I intend to stay for a while
I totally understand your issues with match making especially at this point in your life. I made it clear to my pals and family that I didnt want a pity party through tyring to match make me and that I would find that person at my own good time. Some of my friends still insisted saying they wanted to see me happy.. strange!!
Good luck with the BT train..thats a tough one, if you borrowed my raging hormones, am doubtful you would be very successful..wink wink
aHHHH the hook up. been here! Last year I broke up from my boyfriend and all my friends (male & female) just couldn’t wait to hook me up. By the time they were done (can’t say for sure that they are) I had dated all sorts of people who were potential Mr. Rights. All I needed was space and not hook ups.
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